Well, yeah. You tried to kill her sister. I don't know that there's a way to spin that.

[There is. But he's not gonna be that helpful. You don't get to pick on Elsa for being magic just because she's not here.]

Why do you even care if she hates you? I doubt being stuck in a loveless marriage was gonna make her happy - unless you planned to fake being madly in love with her for the rest of your life. And that's assuming you did get away with killing her only living family member. You basically plotted to destroy everything she had.